Is ity a matter of choice or a matter of genetics?

whatever it is, its not a choice. its something inside the brain. they do not choose who they think is attractive. boys don't grow up and say "hey, i think i'll like a girl today." its something that is natural inside of them. girls don't choose to like boys, it is natural. just like a young person who is gay will grow up liking either boys or girls depending on who they are. why would someone choose to be made fun of, hurt, sometimes even killed?? you cannot place a person who is ual into the same category as someone who kills people. two different mental disorders. you cannot choose who you love, and i wish people would leave s alone. how would you feel if you loved someone but everyone around you called you sick and disgusting for doing so? i don' think you would be happy at all. get your nose out of people's business, and mind your own.