Ramadan:i know this is old but it still breaks my heart?

could not down load ...anyway ......to be disoppinted from the birth of girl ...is a pressure from husband ....and women feel insecure ......though sicientifically proved that ...male ..or female ...X /. Y are both in male sperms ....now which is more active in his sperm ......that is the kid,s .......hence wives should not be blamed but husband should be blamed for harment to this extent